10 tips courtship.

1. Ask yourself why do you want to be in a relationship? Many people want to go into a relationship for the wrong reasons it's not about what you can get from a relationship is about what you can get. How can this relationship make you a better? You must remember that I relationship is bigger than you and that person a relationship affects the whole community that you live in.

2. Be honest about what you're looking for. Nothing is worse than being in being in a relationship with an abstraction. If you are looking at someone as a finish you are wanting the wrong thing. A person is more than an abstract finish. The individual is not the color of their skin, how much money do they make, who they know, how old, are how young they are.

3. Do you have anything in common with the person? A relationship won't last if the two of you do not have anything in common. Once you know what you have in common you can achieve great things together. Granted differences help but what you have in common with your partner will keep you together.

4. Does this person have your best interest in mind? Many of us love the people who are the most detrimental to our evolution. The person who is going to be honest with you is the person who is good for you. Don't date someone who will assist you in living in a fantasy.

5. Be ready for a relationship. If you feel that you're not ready to be faithful and you are not ready to be in a relationship. I do believe that one can be monogamous. Although monogamy can mean different things to different people. Make sure you have a clear definition.

6. Showed them the money. Nobody likes someone who is cheap. If you like someone you must invest in them. Invest with your time, energy, attention, and compassion.

7. Be on time. No one likes someone who is late on the first date. If your going to be late call and let them know 30 minutes before arrival.

8.If you go out don't drink too much. It's never a good idea to get drunk on the first date.best not to  drink at all. If you are going to drink keep it to a 2 drink minimum.

9. Don't talk about polarizing issues. So religion, politics, and past relationships are off the table. Keep the conversation fun.

10. Look for body language. If the person has their arms folded at the end of the date don't expect a second date. If the date ends on a mediocre note it's best to let it go. A person who wants to be with you should be excited!

10 ways to be a better person

1 1. Meditate or use relaxation techniques. Everyone comes to a step where they experience they can't take it anymore, everything is becoming too much, take a step back and take it easy. It's perfectly ok to want a break. 

\2.   Actions speak louder than words. We all have a passion, a desire, a vision, so we choose what we desire to make intentionally, and then have the immense satisfaction of composed it so. We will make it occur. 

3.     Focus on what we will object to happen. We will Listen to our heart, and take the ingenuities that most closely resonate with what we obey. 

4.    Keep the truly serviceable communication you have with good friends, family. You never know when you’ll want to look back on it again to remind yourself of all that’s great about them. 

5.     Staying true to your word is everything!
 
6.     If someone is talking, give him or her your full attention. Its true politeness.
 
7.     Serving others improves who you are – not only in their eyes – but yours as well. The emotions that guide helping others will help you grow in ways you can’t even conceive.
 
8.     Make a desire of what you do well and figure out how to habit it in creative ways. Don’t neglect your normal abilities or talents without being overly self-critical. Focus on one  thing at a time and create discriminating strategies for advancement.
 
9.     Addressing your weaknesses is a huge step toward becoming a better person, but recall, the goal isn’t to be perfect. It’s the striving to improve that force us better
 
10.   Leave your problems at your bedchamber door. By the time you are going to bed, your day is over.. Don’t keep distorting yourself and put that time in your past along with all other prior days.

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