10 tips courtship.

1. Ask yourself why do you want to be in a relationship? Many people want to go into a relationship for the wrong reasons it's not about what you can get from a relationship is about what you can get. How can this relationship make you a better? You must remember that I relationship is bigger than you and that person a relationship affects the whole community that you live in.

2. Be honest about what you're looking for. Nothing is worse than being in being in a relationship with an abstraction. If you are looking at someone as a finish you are wanting the wrong thing. A person is more than an abstract finish. The individual is not the color of their skin, how much money do they make, who they know, how old, are how young they are.

3. Do you have anything in common with the person? A relationship won't last if the two of you do not have anything in common. Once you know what you have in common you can achieve great things together. Granted differences help but what you have in common with your partner will keep you together.

4. Does this person have your best interest in mind? Many of us love the people who are the most detrimental to our evolution. The person who is going to be honest with you is the person who is good for you. Don't date someone who will assist you in living in a fantasy.

5. Be ready for a relationship. If you feel that you're not ready to be faithful and you are not ready to be in a relationship. I do believe that one can be monogamous. Although monogamy can mean different things to different people. Make sure you have a clear definition.

6. Showed them the money. Nobody likes someone who is cheap. If you like someone you must invest in them. Invest with your time, energy, attention, and compassion.

7. Be on time. No one likes someone who is late on the first date. If your going to be late call and let them know 30 minutes before arrival.

8.If you go out don't drink too much. It's never a good idea to get drunk on the first date.best not to  drink at all. If you are going to drink keep it to a 2 drink minimum.

9. Don't talk about polarizing issues. So religion, politics, and past relationships are off the table. Keep the conversation fun.

10. Look for body language. If the person has their arms folded at the end of the date don't expect a second date. If the date ends on a mediocre note it's best to let it go. A person who wants to be with you should be excited!

10 Ways To Make Great Friends

1.    Get familiar with coworkers. Being friends with the people you work with can make work more exciting and fun! It makes it more gratifying especially if it’s your career. 

2.    Be Sincerely Happy For Your Friends don’t be petty or competitive. Celebrate your friend's accomplishments as if they were your own.

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4.    Make eye contact and smile. If you have an unfriendly countenance, people are less likely to be receptive to your friendship. Try not squinting (get some glasses), looking bored, frowning or appearing blankly deadpan, folding your arms (this practically screams "don't talk to me") or hanging out in a corner; such habits may make you look troubled or disinterested.

5.    Keep the 30% talking/70% listening, ratio in mind during small talk when possible.

6.    Be loyal to a friend. Nobody honors fair-weather friends. Fake friends are happy to be around you when things are going well, but are nowhere to be found when you really need them. Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help out your friends.

7.    Be a good confidante keep secrets, so it's no secret that you shouldn't tell other people things that were told to you in confidence.

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9.    In order to stick out from the crowd be unique be it a personality trait or a interest. Distinctive traits will guarantee that people remember who you are.

10. Keeping your patience is key it creates the opening for you to help resolve the issue and make friends comfortable.

Accept your friend for who they are, as an individual, without conditions. Also, as important as it is for you to be there for them, sometimes you have to be willing to let them be there for you.